How To Fight Fair

Turn Disagreements Into Deeper Love

Real Tools. Real Language. Real Change.
Even If Your Spouse Gets Defensive or shuts down.

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Does it feel like every disagreement pushes you farther apart?

You try to talk, but it spirals raised voices, silence, or sleeping back-to-back.
You’re tired of repeating the same conversation and never feeling understood.

Let me assure you:

  • You don’t have to choose between peace and honesty.
  • You can express feelings without being attacked or dismissed.
  • You can repair fast often in less than one hour with the right plan.
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Introducing How To Fight Fair...

The exact framework I use to help couples resolve conflict quickly without yelling, stonewalling, or score-keeping.

  • Name the Real Issue (Not the Surface Fight)
    Cut through the noise to what’s actually hurting.
  • Create Emotional Safety On Demand
    Reset tone, body language, and pacing so both feel safe to talk.
  • Say It So Your Spouse Can Hear It
    Use simple scripts that reduce defensiveness and increase empathy.
  • Repair in Under an Hour
    Follow the Fair Fighting Formula™ to resolve, reconnect, and move on without sweeping it under the rug.
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Why This Works

  1. Clinically Proven Methods
    I’m Dr. Alduan Tartt. For nearly 30 years I’ve helped couples move from resentment to reconnection. These are the same tools I use in session.
  2. Step-By-Step, No Guesswork
    Clear, repeatable phases you can follow even when emotions run high.
  3. Fast Wins, Lasting Change
    You’ll practice the repair process during the workshop then use it at home that night.
  4. Works Even If One Partner Is Skeptical
    One person can shift the dance. When you change the approach, the response often follows.
See How It Works!

Real-Life Transformation

“We stopped talking past each other. In one hour, we actually solved it.” -- Married 9 years

“We felt seen and safe, best conversation we’ve had in months.” -- Engaged couple

What You'll Learn:

  • The Fair Fighting Formula™
    A clean, repeatable process to move from conflict to collaboration fast.
  • Exact Communication Scripts
    Plug-and-play prompts to express needs, set limits, and make repairs.
  • Emotional Safety Reset
    How to calm reactions in the first 90 seconds and keep the door open.
  • Repair & Reconnect Rituals
    Micro-habits that rebuild trust and closeness after tough talks.
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Imagine This...

  • Coming home to peace instead of tension
  • Feeling heard without having to raise your voice
  • Solving the issue without re-hashing the past
  • Falling asleep connected because you resolved it together
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WHAT’S INCLUDED 

Your Enrollment Includes:
  • Live training with Dr. Tartt (with Q&A)
  • Lifetime replay access
  • The Fair Fighting Formula™ toolkit (PDF + scripts)
  • Guided couple exercises and debrief prompts
  • Bonus: Supportive Partner Blueprint (how to validate without agreeing)
Investment: $77 one-time
Backed by decades of clinical experience. A fraction of the cost of ongoing therapy.
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About Dr. Alduan Tartt

For nearly three decades, I’ve guided couples out of conflict and into connection. I believe when partners feel safe, seen, and supported, love becomes cooperative again. This workshop gives you that pathway.